The hardest thing for some people to do is to look in the mirror. Sometimes what you see in others is what you are doing without knowing it. Can you be honest with God, and ask Him to expose YOUR problems? Most probably, Holy Spirit is already quietly pointing out some things you need to change, that would expedite your journey with Jesus. Yes, it will hurt to agree that you can be one of “those.” We can all act unbecomingly from time to time, but just be very quick to agree with God and repent! This cleanses you from the evil things you do that you don’t even mean to. It hurts your pride, but is sweeeet on the other side. Just listen, the Spirit of God will cause you to see your faults in the mirror, and guide you into all truth, so that you won’t have to walk around feeling guilty, or that you have not pleased the father. John said, “Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand” (Matthew 3:2, NKJV). That means after we repent and mean it, the doors of Heaven are opened for us to receive all that God has for us. Just keep on repenting when you realize you have done something to displease the Father, and then snuggle up close to Him, don’t run in shame!